Fandango’s Flashback Friday: December 17th

Fandango’s Flashback Friday: December 17th

Wouldn’t you like to expose your newer readers to some of your earlier posts that they might never have seen? Or remind your long term followers of posts that they might not remember? Each Friday I will publish a post I wrote on this exact date in a previous year. How about you? Why don’t you reach back into your own archives and highlight a post that you wrote on this very date in a previous year?

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This post was published on December 17, 2020. One year later…there is no snow outside my window. It is actually warm for this time of year (54 degrees F)…a welcome change from the cold. Unfortunately, some things do remain the same from one year ago. The pandemic unexpectedly rages on as not enough people have chosen to get vaccinated. So scary, stressful and deadly. The political craziness in DC continues – less surprising, though still discouraging. I continue to be overwhelmed by the challenges and political craziness in my own little condo board world; which has turned into a full time job trying to get things done and calm frazzled nerves. It is important to remember that this too will pass…eventually. I have really missed my blogging friends, but hope to be back on track here sooner than later. Maybe it will take a snow day to get started.

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Snow Day

 

I sit here at my desk in the room where I write…surrounded by white. White walls. White windows. And outside the windows…white crystals and flakes swirl past…settling on window sills and our tiny porch. The line of evergreen trees. The path to my woods. 

Gone are the vibrant reds and warm yellows of autumn. The colorful peaks of nature’s splendor. My world’s palette is – once again – on its way toward a rustic simplicity of browns plus green.

Snowstorms trigger time travel…

Circa 1990s…lying in bed at 6am listening to WTSN – a local AM radio station…waiting for the long-time morning show host to drone through the alphabetic list of school closings. My kids were living at home then and had gone to bed praying for mountains of snow to fall overnight. As they got older, sometimes they heard the radio announcement before I did…MOM NO SCHOOL WOO HOO…drifted down the hall from their rooms to mine. The sweet sense of excitement and gift of a DAY OFF never failed to fill those days with a magic all their own. Why is that I wonder…how snow gave us permission to play. To not consider other alternatives. Admittedly we were able to switch gears fairly easily as I worked part-time with a flexible schedule. My husband, a teacher at a private school, never got snow days off when our kids were…well…kids.

I don’t recall all that many snow days when I was growing up. I’m not sure why, unless in the 60s we were expected to power through. Safety issues were not all that prevalent back then. Those were the days before mandatory seatbelts and bike helmets after all. In my memory, school was cancelled when the snow was Two Feet High. Whether that was actually true is not verifiable. 

My kids built snowmen and slid on plastic discs down windswept or snow-shovel-swept piles of snow. Over and over. They climbed snow drifts as high as the mailbox atop a pole by the street. And made snow angels in the front yard.

My younger brother and I built snow forts – making snow bricks by (mittened) hand, one by one, carefully stacking them onto short walls until finger numbness began to set in. We would spend most of the day in the front yard, coming inside for lunch, hanging our wet wool coats and snow pants to dry in the hallway, the steam rising while we ate. Filling the kitchen with that distinctive wet wool smell. My mother never took photographs of our snow day exploits – just shooed us out the door after breakfast and then again after lunch. So I rely on memory. After the fort came snowball production & stacking – followed by one sided snowball “fights” with passers by…mostly my sister or the boy next door. We all got along, my siblings and I, during those times outside. Just us. There was something about all that snow and a shared sense of fun and purpose. 

Maybe it’s why – when I saw children in this over 55 community the other day – I got a little choked up. Looking out the window I spotted 2 little kids down the path…trudging up a small hill of leftover snow and then repeatedly sliding down. An adult stood nearby. Grandchildren…with their grandpa. Just a guess, but I bet I was right. Lucky them.

The only time I can usually sleep past sunrise is during a snowstorm. Today was one of those days. The highway grows relatively silent as only a few of the bravest drivers hit the road that early. 

More snow than we’ve gotten in 2 years announced the very excited meteorologist this morning on our local TV station. Meteorologists LOVE snow storms. They stand outside in the middle of this once-in-a-2-year-blizzard, shivering and freezing with hoods pulled up…announcing the obvious: It Is Snowing. 

Every channel is about the snow. Interviews with “plow guy” (always a guy) abound. Reporters on street corners with coats wrapped tight shoving yardsticks into snowbanks, directing videographers toward the view behind them. Look it’s snowing! Look there’s a car off the road! Remember to drive slow!

The fascination with extreme weather – one more onslaught we can’t control – continued for hours.

But you know what? There was no mention of the latest ridiculous political maneuvering in Washington DC. No discussion of who lied to who. I don’t think anyone even mentioned the pandemic. And all the relentless pain and suffering. The increasing numbers of the sick and dying. Hospitals strained to capacity. All in this surreal world that doesn’t make sense anymore. All that explains why my husband and I have to spend Christmas alone for the first time in 45 years. 

Mother Nature mercifully took over today and gave at least some of us a brief respite…from all that is so much worse than a simple historic few feet of snow. 

It almost felt like a regular snow day. 

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photo a day challenge: Windows
photo a day challenge: Colors and letters – White
Ragtag Daily Prompt: Rustic Simplicity

15 thoughts on “Fandango’s Flashback Friday: December 17th

  1. I think we WERE expected to power through, I mean, our parents walked up hill both ways barefoot in the snow during the Depression. But maybe it was also because there were fewer cars and just a generally different world. Here they close the schools if it’s below 10F which is also pretty weird to me since that never happened in my childhood, either. they hadn’t invent wind chill when we were kids, either. I love how you write that snow gives us permission to play. I feel that way. When it snows I feel like all my problems are over and I am totally free. I can’t explain that at all, I just wish it would snow. I’m glad you reposted this.

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    1. Thank you. ❤️ Snow also feels cozy looking out at it from my warm home (which I’m lucky enough to enjoy). Covers everything like a blanket, as the saying goes. My parents walked those miles uphill both ways too. Sometimes backwards. Impressive.
      We are supposed to be getting some snow tomorrow for the first time this season, so I look forward to watching it fall.

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  2. I enjoyed this post. The weather is something that perfect strangers always seem to connect over, whether it is helping a neighbour, who you may or may not know, shovel out a car or a sidewalk, or kids joining at the local hill to toboggan or standing at the bus stop lamenting about the downpour or walking past a stranger and saying beautiful day! The weather is something everyone has in common. I have missed your posts. All the best in the New Year!

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    1. Thank you Heather. It is so true about the weather. Nobody can control it and perhaps we unite because it is never anyone’s fault if we don’t like it! The common comfort (or not!!). We can all share in the joy as well. All the best to you as well. Let’s hope that 2022 brings healthier days!

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